Should I express my feelings to the girl I like?
I'm very confused, I like this girl in my class and everyone has been talking about me. I have yet to express my feelings but everyone is saying that I am a playboy which I am not. She is the first girl I have feelings for. This has made her uncomfortable with me. Should I express my feelings to her or not?

- Sad guy
Dear Sad guy,

Thank you for using Lifeline. The most important question that you should ask yourself is, what outcome do you think will likely happen should you express your feelings to her? Will you be willing to face a possible rejection? Will she be willing to say yes? Or most importantly, is the time right to express your feelings now?

Liking someone is a very sensitive feeling, because there's always the anxiety if your feelings are shared equally by the other person. Take the time to know her more, build a stronger relationship based on laughter and smiles, and when you believe the feelings between you both are mutual, that may be a good time to express your feelings.
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