I'm in JC now, I've been getting along very well with this guy in class, but I suspect he might be gay.
I really want to find out, but how do i do it without offending him?
Dear Felicia,
Hmm, I wouldn't have any ideas how to be a gay dectector :D
Let nature take its course. If the relationship between the two of you blossoms, it will. If it were to mature into a good friendship, it will. Meanwhile, take it in your stride, be cool about it, enjoy his company.
Crush on best friend
I have a crush on my best guy friend. What should I do?
- Shimin
Hi Shimin,
Well, if you have a crush on your best guy friend, what’s stopping you from pursuing that?
Spend time with him, and let the emotions grow between you and him. Give him some hints if you wish, you may be surprised, he might just have a crush on you too.
My friend is cheating on his girlfriend
I recently found out that my friend is cheating on his girlfriend. And both he and his girlfriend are my good friends. What should I do? Should I tell his girlfriend? Or should I tell the guy to stop cheating on her?
- WhyKen
Dear Whyken,
Speak to your guy friend. Share what you know, and clarify if there is any misunderstanding.
If he is really seeing someone on top of your female friend, you may want to tell him that you don’t think it is right, and ask him to make a decision about it. Share with him that you don’t feel it is right for him to cheat on her.
Both are your good friends. Your guy friend may not feel that his current relationship if right for him, and hence chosen another. If that is to be the case, don’t let his choice affect your friendship with him. However, be around for your lady friend when he breaks off with her.
